Snapshot (6-10 min)
Get started by watching the lesson video as a group. In this lesson, students will learn that true humility isn’t about thinking less of yourself—it’s about thinking of yourself less. They’ll see how pride puts us in opposition to God, while humility opens us up to God’s grace. Humility practically helps us listen, serve, admit when we’re wrong, and celebrate other people. Most importantly, students will look at Jesus as the perfect example of humility and be challenged to practice it in everyday life.
Icebreaker (5-10 min)
Fun Fact: Go around the circle and have each student answer the question below. Encourage everyone to really listen and respond to each person’s answer. Use this as a simple way to practice humility by focusing on others, showing interest in what makes them unique, and celebrating their gifts—even if their answer is silly!
What’s a fun fact about yourself, a hidden talent you have, or something you’re surprisingly good at that most people here probably don’t know?
Transition: That was a simple way to practice humility—listening to others, learning about them, and celebrating what makes them unique.
Highlights (10 min)
Take turns reading the talking points and Scripture passages aloud. These points help summarize the lesson and give students key takeaways for the day. Have students read the talking points and verses.
- Humility isn’t thinking less of yourself, it’s about thinking of yourself less. It’s being confident in who God made you to be so that you are free to focus on others. Philippians 2:3
- Pride makes everything about “me,” but humility is willing to put others first. Philippians 2:4
- God gives grace to humble people. Being humble means admitting that you need God instead of acting like you can handle everything by yourself. James 4:6.
- Humility shows up in everyday choices. Listen instead of always talking, serve when nobody is watching, admit when you’re wrong, and celebrate your friends when something good happens to them.
- Jesus is the ultimate example of humility. He had every right to be served, but he chose to serve others and eventually gave his life for us. Philippians 2:5-11.
Unpack (25 min)
Read through the questions one at a time and discuss them as a group. Encourage everyone to participate, listen well, and share honestly. This is an opportunity to learn from God’s Word and from one another.
- What part of today’s lesson stood out to you the most? Why?
- What do you think it means that “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble”?
- If you met a really humble person, describe what you think they would be like?
- Can you be confident and humble at the same time? What would that look like?
- How can remembering that your talents come from God change the way you use them?
- Read Philippians 2:3-4. What does this verse mean? How can we live it out?
- Jesus had more power and authority than anyone, yet he chose to serve. What does that teach us about real leadership?
- What’s one way you can make someone else feel noticed or valued this week?