Snapshot (6-10 min)
Get started by watching the lesson video as a group. In this lesson, we’ll look at Mark 7:1-23 and see why Jesus cared more about people’s hearts than simply following religious rules. The Pharisees focused on looking right on the outside, but Jesus showed that our real problem with sin starts on the inside. We’ll learn that following Jesus isn’t about being a perfect rule-follower or ignoring God’s commands—it’s about trusting Jesus to change us from the inside out. When our hearts are close to God, it should begin to show in the way we live.
Icebreaker (5-10 min)
Would You Rather — Rule Edition: Ask each question below one at a time and have students call out their answers.
- Would you rather have to sing everything you say or whisper everything you say?
- Would you rather have to wear a cape every day or wear a bike helmet everywhere?
- Would you rather have to skip everywhere or run everywhere?
- Would you rather have to make a sound effect every time you sit down or say “beep beep” every time you pass someone?
- Would you rather have to announce “incoming!” before entering a room or say “mission accomplished” every time you leave one?
Transition: Thankfully, God doesn’t give us rules like those! But in today’s story, Jesus meets some people who were obsessed with rules.
Highlights (10 min)
Take turns reading the talking points and Scripture passages aloud. These points help summarize the lesson and give students key takeaways for the day. Have students read the talking points and verses.
- God cares about your heart, not just how you look on the outside. You can know the right answers and still be far from God. Mark 7:6-8, 1 Samuel 16:7.
- God’s Word matters more than man-made rules. Make sure your faith is based on what God actually says, not just traditions or opinions. Mark 7:8-9.
- Following Jesus isn’t about being a perfect rule-follower or ignoring God’s commands—it’s about trusting Jesus to change us from the inside out. Ephesians 2:8-10
- Our biggest problem starts in our hearts. Pride, jealousy, greed, and other sins begin inside us before they show up in our actions. Mark 7:20-23.
- Jesus changes us from the inside out. When we trust Him, He changes our hearts, and that starts changing our choices too. Romans 3:22-23.
Unpack (25 min)
Read through the questions one at a time and discuss them as a group. Encourage everyone to participate, listen well, and share honestly. This is an opportunity to learn from God’s Word and from one another.
- What part of today’s lesson stood out to you the most? Why?
- Why do you think it’s sometimes easier to look like you’re following God than to actually have a close relationship with Him?
- Jesus says our bad choices often start in our hearts. What are some attitudes—like jealousy, pride, etc., —that can eventually lead to bad choices?
- What should we do when we realize we have these bad attitudes affecting our actions?
- Why can’t simply “trying harder to be good” fix the problem of sin?
- What’s the difference between obeying God because you’re afraid of getting in trouble and obeying Him because you love Him?
- What does it actually look like for Jesus to change someone from the inside out?
- What’s one practical thing you could do this week to grow closer to God instead of just going through the motions?