Snapshot (6-8 min)
Get started by watching the lesson video as a group. In this lesson, we’re looking at four practical ways to build a strong foundation for the school year: choose good friends, be a great friend, be a good student, and put God first. These habits won’t make life perfect, but they’ll help you stand strong when life gets busy and challenging. When Jesus is at the center of your life, you won’t just survive this school year—you can make a real difference in the lives of the people around you.
Icebreaker (5-10 min)
This or That (School Edition): Have everyone stand up. Designate one side of the room as Option A and the other as Option B. Read each pair (questions) below one at a time, and have students move to the side that best matches their answer.
- Early bird or night owl?
- Math or English?
- PE or Art?
- Homework first or procrastinate?
- School lunch or packed lunch?
- Paper planner or phone calendar?
- Sit in the front or the back?
Transition: Those were fun questions, but here’s the one that really matters: Who do you want to become this year? Let’s look at four habits that can help you build your life on the right foundation.
Highlights (10 min)
Take turns reading the talking points and Scripture passages aloud. These points help summarize the lesson and give students key takeaways for the day. Have students read the talking points and verses.
- The people you spend the most time with will influence who you become, so choose friends who help you grow closer to Jesus. 1 Corinthians 15:33
- Being a great friend means encouraging others, refusing gossip, and using your words to build people up instead of tearing them down. Ephesians 4:29
- Working hard in school is one way to honor God because everything we do can be an act of worship when we do it for Him. Colossians 3:23
- Staying connected to Jesus through prayer, reading the Bible, church, and Christian friends gives you the strength to face everyday challenges. John 15:5, Hebrews 10:25
- Putting God first doesn’t just change your Sundays—it changes how you live every day at school, at home, and with your friends.
Unpack (25 min)
Read through the questions one at a time and discuss them as a group. Encourage everyone to participate, listen well, and share honestly. This is an opportunity to learn from God’s Word and from one another.
- What part of today’s lesson stood out to you the most? Why?
- Which of these four tips do you think is the hardest to live out during the school year? Why?
- Read 1 Corinthians 15:33. How have your friends influenced your decisions and the person you are today—for better or worse? Share some examples.
- What are some good qualities to look for in a friend?
- Have you ever been hurt by gossip or rumors? How did it affect you?
- Read Ephesians 4:29. What are some phrases that build people up?
- What are some ways you can be good student and show respect to your teacher?
- What usually distracts you from putting God first during the week? What are you going to do to change that? *Leaders feel free to help them brainstorm ideas
- If your classmates only knew you by your actions, would they guess you’re a follower of Jesus? Why or why not?