Snapshot (6-8 min)
Get started by watching the lesson video as a group. In this lesson, students will explore Mark 2 and see that following Jesus is about a real relationship, not just checking off religious rules. Jesus forgives and heals a paralyzed man, welcomes people others reject, and challenges empty religious traditions. Students will learn that the goal is not to just check off boxes to become a “good Christian”, but to know Jesus and follow Him.
Icebreaker (5-10 min)
Check the Box: Read a list of simple tasks and have students give themselves one point for each one they completed that day:
- Brushed your teeth
- Made your bed
- Ate breakfast
- Checked your phone
- Helped someone
- Prayed
- Read the Bible
- Complained about something
Afterward, ask: “Does checking a box always mean your heart was really in it?”
Transition: It’s possible to complete a task without really caring about it. The same can happen in our faith—we can check all the right boxes while missing a real relationship with Jesus.
Highlights (10 min)
Take turns reading the talking points and Scripture passages aloud. These points help summarize the lesson and give students key takeaways for the day. Have students read the talking points and verses.
- Faith is meant to move us to action. The man’s friends did not give up when the doorway was blocked; they found another way to bring him to Jesus. Mark 2:3-5.
- Jesus proved that he is more than just a teacher or healer. His authority to forgive sins shows that he is the Son of God. Mark 2:10-12.
- Jesus welcomes people who know they need help. You do not have to pretend to be perfect. Being honest about your sin is the starting point for a relationship with him. Mark 2:15-17.
- Religious habits cannot save us; only trusting in what Jesus did on the cross can save us. Prayer, fasting, Bible reading, and church attendance are spiritual disciplines that help us grow in our relationship with God.
- We obey God because we are already loved by Him, not because we are trying to earn his love. Romans 12:1
Unpack (25 min)
Read through the questions one at a time and discuss them as a group. Encourage everyone to participate, listen well, and share honestly. This is an opportunity to learn from God’s Word and from one another.
- What part of today’s lesson stood out to you the most? Why?
- Have you ever felt like being a Christian was mostly about following rules? What made you feel that way?
- What is the difference between doing something to impress people and doing it because you love God?
- The paralyzed man’s friends worked hard to bring their friend to Jesus to be healed. What is one way you could help a friend get closer to Jesus?
- What is one spiritual habit—such as praying, reading the Bible, or going to church—that you could approach as a way to connect with God instead of just checking a box?
- How do you start a relationship with Jesus? Take some time to talk about this and the difference between “religion” and “relationship”.
- Have you ever felt like you had to earn God’s love? What does this lesson teach instead?